Well... I broke down and did it. I took a HPT. I got 2 lines at this point with all other three transfers, so I figure we'd be safe to know. And I was dying to know. The blissfully unaware wasn't cutting it anymore and I just wanted to know. The clear blue digital results were...
...Not Pregnant.
Needless to say, I'm bummed. I figured this was the case given what happened with the cycle.
I made my follow up appointment. My official blood test is Monday (and my parents aren't spending the night so it's a go). Now it's a wait and see.
So my question to you is - when did you decide, or did you, to stop trying fertility treatments? Was it a personal/religious thing? Was it a doctor thing? Was it when you got pregnant?
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Oh man. I'm so sorry. I'm holding onto hope until your beta, because that's how I am. :). I don't know how to know when you're done with fertility treatments. I think that it's one of those "you'll just KNOW" when you're done. Praying for you friend.
Bummer :| So sorry it didn't work this time around. Errr. We have not decided when we will stop... although that light at the end of the tunnel is not far away. For us it will be a matter of running out of funds and emotions. Good luck on Monday :)
Ugh. I am so sorry.
In terms of when to stop? i don't know the answer. we haven't yet, but we are very, very close to shifting paths to something more likely to succeed (like donor eggs). sending you wishes of peace in this hard time. thinking of you.
Mo
Hugs, Nity. That really sucks. I hope the doctor has some answers.
xoxo
T.
oh no! oh no! oh no!
well, for us it was when we were pregnant with twins AND there wasn't anything frozen, almost like God made the decision for us.
I don't think there's a right answer; I think you just know!
I don't know when it's time to stop. We are just praying & trying to be open to His guidance. In the last week, we have felt called to pursue a homestudy for fostering. I'm not sure this will lead to our forever child, but I'm trusting He will lead. I also know in my heart that I want to do at least one more fresh cycle before my birthday. Maybe if we do it one more time, I'll know we gave it the best shot.
But, I don't want to stop until I have another baby or two. Some days are so good. Others, I cry all day in the quiet moments with Elias or at night falling asleep & begging God for another child.
I don't know, Nity. I am so sorry this is showing negative. I will pray that somehow there's still hope. And, either way, He will wrap you in peace & comfort.
I am so very sorry. ((HUGS))
Joshua just woke up from his nap, but I will come back to this post or email you during nap time tomorrow or next week as far as when we decided to stop treatment.
Praying for you.
Just want you to know that I'm praying for you, friend. I'm hoping you get a different result tomorrow. Either way, you're in my thoughts.
We are still trying for #2 and the thing that gave me hope was my 2nd opinion. I'm not sure if you've ever gotten one.. but it might be worth it. Hang in there and know you aren't alone. xoxo
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